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[pirenko_blockquote author="JARED LAFITTE"]Any marriage is built and shaped by two different, sinful people adjusting to one another. You simply will never find a human being who is pre-packaged to fit your every personality quirk, cultural preference or lifestyle particularity.[/pirenko_blockquote]

You’ve seen the plot:

Guy meets girl. Guy likes girl. Girl likes guy. They hang out pretty frequently and text/call each other almost every day. Everything’s coming together, and their friends see the budding relationship as a complete win for both sides.

The girl is waiting for the guy to take initiative and move their relationship past the odd more-than-friends-less-than-lovers stage, but he's scared. “What if she’s not the one I’m supposed to pursue?” he asks. “I need to wait on God to tell me she’s the right one” he reconciles to himself.

The dates continue. The girl is irritated but patient as the guy dances around taking things to the next level and never does. The months go by. She sees her friends getting engaged/married/having children and can’t figure out why he’s stalling. She genuinely likes him and can imagine a fulfilling marriage with him. But he’s weak and indecisive.

THE BIBLE CERTAINLY DOESN’T TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE AND SPOUSES IN TERMS OF FINDING ONLY ONE UNIQUELY DESIGNED MATCH

Perhaps you’ve seen the other side of the story, too. A mature, Godly guy is interested in a girl, and he pursues her like he’s supposed to. He takes initiative.........

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